Book News and Reviews!

I bought and read Brene Brown’s book, Strong Ground, on our family vacation last fall. It struck me how her metaphor of solidfying your leadership on firm ground. In her artful voice and classic use of metaphor, she advocates for the courage required to lead from a solid place with integrity, convictions, values and awareness in place.

I remember the feeling as I read, “Yes, yes yes… Exactly!” and in mind referenced back to my own newly published chapters inviting the leader reader into the deep work, considering the impact of their personal and professional story on how they lead today, getting honest about the faceplants and debris while also recovering buried treasure.

So seeing our books posted together here makes great sense, is an incredible honor, and I encourage you to read them both… TOGETHER!

If you’ve not gotten your copy of Leading Becomes You, check it out here!

Clearing Moral Debris: What Leaders Need to Know About Moral Injury

In Leading Becomes You, I write about the emotional and psychological debris leaders accumulate — unresolved experiences, compromises, betrayals, and unprocessed wounds that clog the inner terrain of their leadership. One of the most significant kinds of debris is what psychologists now call moral injury, the disruption to one’s moral fiber that arises from committing ... Read more

Leader Identity Clarity: The Antidote to Leading on Autopilot

Most leaders don’t wake up and say, “Today I’ll lead on autopilot.”But if we’re honest, many of us slip into it without realizing: back-to-back meetings, urgent churn through emails, cuaght up in constant change. We keep moving, but not necessarily with awareness. Autopilot leadership feels safe and necessary—it keeps the wheels turning. But over time, ... Read more

The 3 Things Every Leader Wants — and Why Identity Clarity is the Key to Getting Them

If you ask most leaders what they want, the answers are surprisingly consistent: These are the three non-negotiables of modern leadership. And yet, despite countless trainings, strategies, and “proven” tools, too many leaders are watching these priorities continue to dwindle and decline. Why? Because they’re trying to fix the symptoms instead of the root. The Real Issue ... Read more

Why Leadership Behaviors Don’t Stick Without Identity

You’ve seen it before: A leader goes through a training. They learn how to motivate the team, engage a crucial conversation, delegate, hold one-on-ones, or communicate more clearly. For a few weeks, they try out their new skills. But soon old patterns creep back in. Or worse, the “new behaviors” vanish under pressure. Why? Because ... Read more

Why Self-Awareness Isn’t Enough Anymore

And what you (and your organization) need instead. Self-awareness gets a lot of press-And for good reason! It is linked to all things ROI for leader, manager, supervisor development and connected to personal and professional flourishing. It is a vital element for effective leadership, healthy team relationships, workplace wellbeing, and performance. The research backs it ... Read more

The Self-Deceived Leader: Why Teams Work Around You (and What to Do About It)

It’s one of the most common complaints I hear from frustrated leaders: “Why won’t my team speak up?”“Why am I the last to know what’s going on?”“Why does everything seem to happen around me instead of with me?” The answer is hard to hear — but it’s also the key to unlocking the kind of ... Read more

Finding Your Leadership Sweet Spot: Balancing Connection and Boundaries

We often think of leadership in terms of strategy, execution, and achieving results. But in today’s dynamic work environment, something more nuanced is required for the relationships you lead: emotional precision. At the heart of effective leadership lies the delicate art of balancing genuine human connection with clear professional boundaries – a “sweet spot” that ... Read more

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