Natalie Pickering, Author at Dr. Natalie Pickering | Organizational Psychologist & Leadership Coach

The Hidden Exhaustion of High Performers:Why Exceptional Leaders Burn Out Differently — and Why Identity-First Coaching Matters

By Dr. Natalie Pickering There is a dangerous misconception about high-performing leaders – that because they are functioning at top capacity they are fine. But some of the most psychologically depleted individuals in organizations are also the highest functioning. They continue producing.They continue leading.They continue solving.They continue carrying. And because they rarely outwardly collapse, their … Read more

Women’s Health at Work: The Hidden Load Many Women Are Carrying

In honor of Women’s Health Month, I wanted to illuminate the ongoing challenges for women in the workplace and leadership. And I realize we stand on the shoulders of many incredible advocates, men and women, who historically and today speak up and hire and pay and acknowledge the issues I outline here. While conversations often … Read more

How a Paper Fortune Teller Explains Identity-First Leadership, Teaming and Workplaces

In my speaking, training and workshop experiences on my identity-first paradigm for leading, teaming, coaching and workplaces, I ask teams and leaders to make a paper fortune teller. Yes, there’s some initial hesitation and funny looks. But once we tear that bottom piece of paper off to make a square, they are all in. You … Read more

The Identity-First Framework TM

The Foundation Beneath Leadership, Coaching, and Workplace Performance Leadership development has a sequencing problem. We teach people how to: And still— Leaders struggle under pressure, Teams fracture in moments that matter, Culture breaks down when it’s tested. Not because people lack skill. But because we’ve been building performance on top of something we’ve never explicitly … Read more

Identity First: Why Mission Starts With People

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Organizations are famous for crafting mission statements. But mission doesn’t exist at just one level. Rather, it exists at several layers of identity: • Personal mission — the contribution an individual’s story, roles, and experience brings• Leader mission — how someone’s self-as-leader influence guides others• Team mission — the shared purpose that aligns a group … Read more

Leader Imposter Phenomenon is Not a Mindset Problem. It’s an Identity Gap

By Natalie Pickering, PhD Imposter phenomenon, referred to as imposter syndrome, is shorthand for high achievers who privately fear they are frauds– and that at any time, they will be found out. It is typically framed as a confidence issue. Leaders are told to reframe their mindset, internalize the good stuff, challenge maladaptive thinking, or … Read more

From “Soft Skills” to Career Infrastructure Advantage

The Missing Dimension of Career Growth Careers rarely stall because of a lack of skill. They stall because you have outgrown the role and perhaps even the internal systems supporting it. Many capable, high-achieving professionals reach a moment where advancement slows—even though performance remains strong. They’ve done what career advice prescribes: earned the credentials, invested … Read more

Why Smart Leaders Still Make Decisions They Regret

Smart leaders still make decisions they regret. Not because they lack experience.Not because they didn’t think it through.And not because they aren’t competent. Regret in leadership rarely comes from ignorance.And it rarely comes from pressure alone. Pressure matters — but it mostly reveals what’s already happening beneath the surface. Because two people can make the … Read more

Book News and Reviews!

ICF COACH Copy of Identity first leadership

I bought and read Brene Brown’s book, Strong Ground, on our family vacation last fall. It struck me how her metaphor of solidfying your leadership on firm ground. In her artful voice and classic use of metaphor, she advocates for the courage required to lead from a solid place with integrity, convictions, values and awareness … Read more

Identity-First Leadership and Me: Here’s My Why!

I was interviewed by Authority Magzine on the back story and behind the scenes for my mission to equip leaders with an identity-first foundation. I’m honored to share my why right here. If identity-first leadership resonates, let’s talk! Or check out the identity-first field guide I wrote here!

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