When Your Greatest Strengths Get Hijacked by Stress (And What to Do About It)

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We often think of our strengths as the best parts of us—the qualities that help us succeed, lead, and connect. And they are! But here’s a leadership truth that often goes unspoken: under stress, those very strengths can become our biggest liabilities. This doesn’t mean our strengths vanish. They don’t. But stress hijacks them, puts … Read more

What Is Identity-First Leadership? A New Framework for Leadership and Coaching

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Leadership isn’t just about what you do. It’s about who you are—and who you’re becoming. For decades, leadership development has focused on skills, competencies, and behaviors: how to delegate, how to communicate, how to strategize. These matter—but they don’t explain why many highly skilled leaders still end up burned out, disconnected, or on autopilot. The … Read more

Leader Identity Clarity: The Antidote to Leading on Autopilot

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Most leaders don’t wake up and say, “Today I’ll lead on autopilot.”But if we’re honest, many of us slip into it without realizing: back-to-back meetings, urgent churn through emails, cuaght up in constant change. We keep moving, but not necessarily with awareness. Autopilot leadership feels safe and necessary—it keeps the wheels turning. But over time, … Read more

Why Leadership Behaviors Don’t Stick Without Identity

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You’ve seen it before: A leader goes through a training. They learn how to motivate the team, engage a crucial conversation, delegate, hold one-on-ones, or communicate more clearly. For a few weeks, they try out their new skills. But soon old patterns creep back in. Or worse, the “new behaviors” vanish under pressure. Why? Because … Read more

The Missing Metric: Why Knowing Your Self-As-Leader Is Your Most Powerful Performance Strategy

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In our relentless pursuit of productivity hacks, meticulously tracked performance metrics, and the latest leadership frameworks, we’ve inadvertently overlooked the very foundation upon which all of these rest: identity clarity. Not personality tests.Not style assessments.Not generic competencies. Who you are—and how congruently you lead from that place—is the most predictive variable of your leadership effectiveness. … Read more

Finding Your Leadership Sweet Spot: Balancing Connection and Boundaries

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We often think of leadership in terms of strategy, execution, and achieving results. But in today’s dynamic work environment, something more nuanced is required for the relationships you lead: emotional precision. At the heart of effective leadership lies the delicate art of balancing genuine human connection with clear professional boundaries – a “sweet spot” that … Read more

Beyond the Model: Where Liminality Meets the Stages of Change

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When organizations embark on change, they usually reach for familiar tools: Gantt charts, strategy decks, maybe even a change curve. These are essential and I recommend them. But I find that rarely do we initiate or encourage talk about what change feels like—that strange terrain where the old ways no longer work, and the new … Read more

How to Be an Empathetic Leader Without Losing Authority

How to Be an Empathetic Leader Without Losing Authority

Empathy is an essential leadership skill, strengthening relationships, building trust, and improving team morale. Yet many leaders hesitate to lean into empathy for fear of seeming weak or overly accommodating. Striking the right balance between understanding and authority is key to maintaining leadership effectiveness. Empathetic leadership does not mean lowering standards or avoiding difficult conversations. … Read more

How Collaborative Coaching Communities Accelerate Leadership Growth

How Collaborative Coaching Communities Accelerate Leadership Growth

Leadership growth is not a solitary journey. While personal effort and self-reflection are essential, some of the most significant breakthroughs come from engaging with others. Collaborative coaching communities offer a dynamic, supportive environment where leaders can grow together through shared experiences, accountability, and collective problem-solving. By participating in these communities, leaders gain fresh perspectives, develop … Read more

Turning Criticism into Opportunities for Leadership Growth

Turning Criticism into Opportunities for Leadership Growth

Criticism is an inevitable part of leadership. Whether it’s from peers, subordinates, or superiors, every leader will face negative feedback at some point in their career. While criticism can be challenging to hear, it is also a valuable opportunity for growth and development. By learning how to turn criticism into constructive feedback, leaders can enhance … Read more

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