Natalie Pickering 
We often think of our strengths as the best parts of us—the qualities that help us succeed, lead, and connect. And they are! But here’s a leadership truth that often goes unspoken: under stress, those very strengths can become our biggest liabilities. This doesn’t mean our strengths vanish. They don’t. But stress hijacks them, puts … Read more
For years, I’ve worked with leaders, teams, and organizations across industries. One insight has remained constant: sustainable transformation doesn’t begin with new tools, new strategies, or new metrics. It begins with identity clarity. That’s why I coined the term identity-first leadership and have expanded it to a training offering, “Identity-First Teaming: From Me to We”. … Read more
In Leading Becomes You, I write about the emotional and psychological debris leaders accumulate — unresolved experiences, compromises, betrayals, and unprocessed wounds that clog the inner terrain of their leadership. One of the most significant kinds of debris is what psychologists now call moral injury, the disruption to one’s moral fiber that arises from committing … Read more
Leadership isn’t just about what you do. It’s about who you are—and who you’re becoming. For decades, leadership development has focused on skills, competencies, and behaviors: how to delegate, how to communicate, how to strategize. These matter—but they don’t explain why many highly skilled leaders still end up burned out, disconnected, or on autopilot. The … Read more
Most leaders don’t wake up and say, “Today I’ll lead on autopilot.”But if we’re honest, many of us slip into it without realizing: back-to-back meetings, urgent churn through emails, cuaght up in constant change. We keep moving, but not necessarily with awareness. Autopilot leadership feels safe and necessary—it keeps the wheels turning. But over time, … Read more
If you ask most leaders what they want, the answers are surprisingly consistent: These are the three non-negotiables of modern leadership. And yet, despite countless trainings, strategies, and “proven” tools, too many leaders are watching these priorities continue to dwindle and decline. Why? Because they’re trying to fix the symptoms instead of the root. The Real Issue … Read more
You’ve seen it before: A leader goes through a training. They learn how to motivate the team, engage a crucial conversation, delegate, hold one-on-ones, or communicate more clearly. For a few weeks, they try out their new skills. But soon old patterns creep back in. Or worse, the “new behaviors” vanish under pressure. Why? Because … Read more
And what you (and your organization) need instead. Self-awareness gets a lot of press-And for good reason! It is linked to all things ROI for leader, manager, supervisor development and connected to personal and professional flourishing. It is a vital element for effective leadership, healthy team relationships, workplace wellbeing, and performance. The research backs it … Read more
It’s one of the most common complaints I hear from frustrated leaders: “Why won’t my team speak up?”“Why am I the last to know what’s going on?”“Why does everything seem to happen around me instead of with me?” The answer is hard to hear — but it’s also the key to unlocking the kind of … Read more
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